Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 10:33 pm
Let me try again. I, and many others, have never said that if you have had a bad experience that you shouldn't post. We have also never said that the experience never happened or that people should be "blamed" for posting. Who is "blaming" anyone for posting reviews? What we are saying is this - 1.) International teaching can be wonderful (it can also be bad, but so can any job anywhere). 2.) When nothing but negative reviews are written, what does that say about international teaching? I think the opportunity is great. Do your job, try to stay out of the negativity and gossip and it improves the odds of having a nice experience. Notice I said improve the odds and not that it guarantees a nice experience. 3.) With all of the negative reviews, isn't it like crying wolf? A poster said that other people went to the school even after hearing about the reviews. Doesn't that tell you that they don't believe what you are saying? Reading ISR would make me think that there are only 5 or 6 really great places to teach internationally, the others are "for profit", "awful", and "evil" places to work. There are many nice places to work.
To sum this all up. I am not an administrator (there seems to be a paranoia about that.). Everyone has the right to post their comments and no one is being "blamed" for doing so. I'm not sure what the "fix" is. Maybe waiting a while after your experience to write might put it into perspective. Self-reflecting and putting ourselves in the mix i.e. did I do my best, did I handle this in the best way. I can say honestly that I have not always handled situations that have arisen between people in the best way so I could have done/not done things to make the situation better. Read your review for exaggerations or overreactions to make sure you are not making a mountain out of a molehill. It's only human nature to try and make things you don't like seem even worse (for example I hate eggplant so I think it was put on the Earth as a torture device. Clearly exaggerating, but hey I hate eggplant so it's okay right?). I don't think that people who post negative reviews are evil, or anything else. I am simply saying that when I see 9 out of 10 reviews are negative to absolutely horrible, I start to not believe them and that's not good or fair to the really serious problems such as crime, really awful housing, major broken promises, going to the school and finding out that there is no job, sexual harassment, etc. I like the people I work with and for. If I don't I leave. Not everyone has that option, but you do have the option of being polite, friendly, and professional. This goes a long way towards a positive experience, or am I wrong?
To sum this all up. I am not an administrator (there seems to be a paranoia about that.). Everyone has the right to post their comments and no one is being "blamed" for doing so. I'm not sure what the "fix" is. Maybe waiting a while after your experience to write might put it into perspective. Self-reflecting and putting ourselves in the mix i.e. did I do my best, did I handle this in the best way. I can say honestly that I have not always handled situations that have arisen between people in the best way so I could have done/not done things to make the situation better. Read your review for exaggerations or overreactions to make sure you are not making a mountain out of a molehill. It's only human nature to try and make things you don't like seem even worse (for example I hate eggplant so I think it was put on the Earth as a torture device. Clearly exaggerating, but hey I hate eggplant so it's okay right?). I don't think that people who post negative reviews are evil, or anything else. I am simply saying that when I see 9 out of 10 reviews are negative to absolutely horrible, I start to not believe them and that's not good or fair to the really serious problems such as crime, really awful housing, major broken promises, going to the school and finding out that there is no job, sexual harassment, etc. I like the people I work with and for. If I don't I leave. Not everyone has that option, but you do have the option of being polite, friendly, and professional. This goes a long way towards a positive experience, or am I wrong?