I am a
Kuwait citizen with two daughters in a private school. Someone
recently forwarded
to me "Kuwait culture shock" and I am upset by the completely
negative manner it portrays my country. No one would want to teach
here if all they knew of Kuwait is what this man wrote. With your
permission I would like to add my own voice to this discussion
in the form of an essay I have composed. It is as follows:
Much attention has been given to my country in this journal
recently, much of it negative. As someone with ties to Kuwait
and the United States (through a university degree and marriage)
I would like this essay to provide a more balanced view about
life in Kuwait.
Kuwait enjoys the highest literacy rate in the Arab world. Clearly,
this must be credited to the many fine teachers who have toiled
here over the last half century. Such an impressive track record
could not have been achieved without dedicated teachers, the
vast majority of whom could not have been overwhelmed by culture
shock to have produced these results.
There are many positive aspects of living and working in Kuwait
for a North American teacher. Compensation is generous, it's
always paid on time, frequent holidays, government subsidized
food and gasoline prices, nearly free government health services
and no taxes are some of the important ones. Compared to most
countries Kuwait has a low crime rate. Few western expatriates
will ever be the victim of a crime in Kuwait. These points are
quite impressive when one considers that the total population
of Kuwait is that of an average large city in the United States.
That a population of around three million people with a land
mass about the size of New Jersey can muster all the resources
required to operate a modern nation is nothing short of amazing.
Further, only a third of the population is Kuwaiti; the other
two-thirds are expatriates from all over the world.
Yes, my country has its problems just as does
yours (regardless of where you are from). Interestingly, my list
of problems is
different than most of what I have read in other articles and
postings in this journal. My country has been generous in allowing
displaced and impoverished people from many countries residency
here to help them improve their lives. People in North America
and Europe are very familiar with the problems refuges and the
downtrodden bring with them. These social forces are difficult
for much larger countries to handle, imagine how difficult it
is for a country the size of Kuwait! There is never a shortage
of people anywhere in the world who prey upon the weak to exploit
them just to line their own pockets. Because Kuwait does not
have the resources to effectively control, reform or enforce
its immigration policies, lapses are bound to occur. We are not
proud of this and yearn for the day this situation is corrected.
We also take some measure of solace in the sad fact that, unfortunately,
we are not alone in this predicament. There can be no defense
of Kuwaiti men who
take advantage, sexually, of their servants. Kuwait is an Islamic
country where this behavior is strictly forbidden and punishable
by law. The percentage (in relation to the total male population)
of men who engage in these activities is very small but provides
flashy headlines for our local newspapers. Many Kuwaiti's are
frustrated by the reality that services like government provided
health care has been overwhelmed by the sheer numbers of expatriates
so when the time comes we require these services they are either
unavailable due to lack of capacity or the quality has been degraded
by our inability to stay ahead of the need for new facilities
and staffing.
As I reviewed the many articles in this
journal one of my favorites was "It's not for everyone, but then neither is bungee jumping" by
Judith Blake. The primary theme I took from her essay is that
if a person takes a position and lives in a foreign country they
have to anticipate that it will be different from the one they
are coming from. If that person is not good at adapting to different
cultures they probably should not attempt it. It is too easy
for someone to criticize an unfamiliar culture when examining
it through the prejudices of another. When you notice a person
in Arabic dress do something you don't approve of, can you tell
it which Arab country they are from by looking at their clothes?
How can a visitor know if the man in a dishdasha who cut in front
of them at Starbucks wasn't from another gulf country? Yes, there
are Kuwaiti's who drive too fast, behave badly towards others
and so forth but is there any place on earth where people are
always perfect? P!
lease understand I'm not defending these people other than to
implore observers to be realistic and objective before delivering
caustic remarks.
In conclusion, I hope that qualified, open-minded teachers from
North America continue to come to Kuwait and help sustain our
high literacy rates. But please, don't bother if you cannot adapt
to living somewhere other than home. Enjoy my country and culture.
Make as many Kuwaiti friends as you like and embrace the experience.
My wish is for expatriate teachers to benefit from their experiences
with students and their families and eventually go home with
a greater understanding of another part of the world while also
unlocking the minds of Kuwaiti youth.
One final point, I want to thank my friend and colleague, Mr.
John Grunow, for assisting me with writing and editing this essay.
Fouzi Al Rumaih